The chase.

Most people have a hard time finding what they're looking for in someone. Because a majority of the time, they're always looking for it in a person who isn't looking for them. As humans, we find allure in the things that seems hard to get. We love "the chase". Only to find out later you've wasted hours, weeks, sometimes even months chasing someone who can't even begin to appreciate you, or the type of love you're offering. Being mature is not just about paying your bills, or being independent. It's also about respecting your love, respecting your time, and respecting what you bring to the table enough to know that you're too grown, and have way too much to offer for you to have to chase anyone worth experience that.